If you’re getting fired from your job, use it as an opportunity to gain the support of coworkers & as a means of finding greener pastures somewhere else.
If your wife is leaving you and there’s no remedy in sight, make your peace with it and use it as an opportunity to learn a lesson or three. Then, when you’ve hit the gym and redefined yourself and your standards, let that new person come to you. If you play your cards right, you’ll end up with an upgrade.
The same goes for any other kind of trouble. There’s always an “out”, but it’s up to you to find one. If you become too mired to see that exit strategy, talk to someone who can help you find your way.
I don’t expect people to enjoy terribly this post. It’s a life lesson and it’s not meant to be pleasant. When magic cannot achieve your aims, it’s clear that you are making the wrong choices in life. Don’t make the mistake of falling in love with potential. Instead, take the memo your guides are dropping for you and move forward with your life.
Don’t let your pride or insistence become your undoing.