This is a secret of ensorcellment, and an incredibly potent one at that.
If you are anxious, then anxiety is what you will carry with you. You will bring this with you each and every day, and your foot-tapping, heavy sighs, and nervous chatter will cause others to experience your anxiety by extension.
If, however, you are calm, peaceful, and kind, with a smiling face, others will experience and reflect that behavior if they feel that it is sincere. It’s quite difficult to be upset with someone who is sincere in their compassion for others, and in walking with this energy, you will make friends, cultivate alliances, and manifest better things. Others will have a better impression of you, and in turn they will be more inclined to choose to be near you.
This truth is easy to understand, yet difficult to apply. Consider it in your day to day actions, and if you feel called to answer a situation with emotion, consider the effect your actions will have in turn. Wrath often begets wrath, while a good mood often sways even the grumpiest of individuals into behaving more kindly.
There are some exceptions, but ensorcellment starts with your responses & how you choose to interface with the world within your immediate vicinity. ;)
Blessings to you,