We've all heard the phrase "with great power comes great responsibility", and that is particularly true here. Recognize that what you're doing is magical and work to make it both intentional and practical. As you do so, you'll find yourself resonating with the Cosmos in a different way. When you walk the path your soul wants to walk, it becomes easier, almost.
Sure, there are difficulties, as that's baked into life's experience, but one becomes less fazed by those troubles as a result. Practicing things like sex magic can change your entire vantage point on life to such an extreme degree that you perceive everything through a different, less constrained lens. These biases that hold us back fall away and we're left with a greater understanding & greater hold on our realities.
Food for thought.